I wished that these few things are the things that are NOT entertained by me. I wished I could just eliminate all of these useless thoughts and beliefs from my mind. Unfortunately, they constantly bug me – a person who is having a real trouble in making money.
- Money does not grow on trees
It is real hard for me to make money
Money would not buy happiness
Making money is not that important to me
I’m lousy at making money
I cannot afford it – but it’s true bah!
It’s better to give than receive
I will never get rich
Who am I to become rich?
I wished I had more of these thoughts on my mind, the thoughts and beliefs that constantly running through the minds of the super rich.
- Having lots of money is great
With money I can help lots of people
It is real easy and fun for me to make money
Making lots of money comes easily to me
I am a money magnet
I always have more money than I need
Making lots of money is really great
Well, as they keep entertaining these thoughts and beliefs, their mind, the sub-conscious part of it automatically FOCUS on making lots of money.
I took that, some part of that from an article I read somewhere. So, here we are at the money problem again. It’s normal for us to feel that way, to have money problems I mean even the super-rich face the same problem but maybe different issues. Still related to money, something people say the root of all evil, they face problems like; what to do with all this money I have? For us, as usual when it comes to end of the month or for some as early as the payday car loan, credit cards, housing loan, mummy & daddy, sisters’ monthly allowance, phone bills, internet bills – not to mention the outstanding ones. All of these things come together in just split seconds.
Money is not everything – In a way I do agree. But let say, try and live without it. I strongly doubt that anybody will. Let’s not talk about being a survivor, live on an island and eat for free. That’s pure fantasy. Get on with the real thing. So, it’s not entirely everything but most of the things need money. Ok, plus there’s a need for you to fulfill your spiritual hunger as well but then sometimes that needs money too.
When I first started my long holiday back in December last year, I can still enjoy a plate of kampua for RM2.00. I talk about being back here in a small town can give me a peace in mind, looking at life in a different way – in a sense completely different from the life that I had when I was in KL … and I boasted about being able to blog a lot more about life here than from what I used to be. Well, it did happen in a way. I have changed, how I view things, how I look at life, how I take disappointments, how I endure the hard life of being unemployed.
Now, the only thing that has changed lately is the price of a plate of kampua. Instead of the used-to-be RM2.00 per plate, it’s now RM2.30, a 15% increase and it came at the right time, July 2007 in conjunction with the hike in civil servants salary. In fact some of it got it up as early as a few days before the news about the increment was announced. Do people here complaints? Nope, yes… Nope, not in a proper way, Yes they do talk about it during the kedai kopi hours.
I remember when I was in my primary school days; I used to have kampua for recess time. Back then it was RM1.30 per plate. If you want to buy the already packed kampua, of course the amount is a little smaller but you can get a packet for RM0.50 or even RM0.20 and RM0.10. Those RM0.20 and RM0.10 is more or less the size of the snacks of the same price that you can get from grocery stores. It was not that much but still it was worth snacking.
Do you think we can really become rich if we work hard? Why is it that only a few percent maybe around not more than 10% of the population wealthy whereas the other 90% just manage to get by, hanging by a thread for some despite putting in long working hours, 9-5 and 5 days a week. For some, they don’t have the thing we call weekends even if there is I believe most of us brought back their office work back home and try to finished it before Monday kicks in.
For some, we might not have the choice or simply was just not given any accept for just working our ass out day and night to keep the company floating and at the same to keep food on the table. Isn’t it weird that we do the things that we don’t really want to but we have to keep us alive. Scary, but it’s true. So, we wished that the formula to get rich at least a little bit clearer. Sad, it is not and it continues to be that way unless some efficient and necessary steps are taken. What would that be? I don’t know or should I say I have yet to know. For most people, the concept “Get Rich or Die Trying” is always the main agenda.
We have our own purpose to get rich. It defers for every single person. For some might be the family factor, and there is also to prove that everyone is wrong and maybe just to be in the bandwagon. Whatever it is, everyone have set their priority on what they should do and what will they do next. Last but not least a happy belated birthday to bongkersz’ ah-ma. Dude, I think you’re doing great. Whatever it is, you’ve tried and still trying your very best, I think that’s the best present a son could give, at least for now.
Quote of the day :
It’s difficult to see the picture when you’re inside the frame
July 30, 2007 at 8:16 pm
money money money..i love money. wahahahahahahahahahaha…
the most expensive laksa in kopitiam kch that i’ve ever saw cost RM6.
July 31, 2007 at 1:11 am
I NEED money!!! I NEED money !!!!!!!! Arghhhhhh!!!!
July 31, 2007 at 11:47 am
lola : we all love money
yinsi : me too … badly. I need to go KL
August 1, 2007 at 8:55 pm
Cibol, you highlighted whats on my mind for a while d…
i can feel for you. ‘money is not everything’ – but its definitely everything in order for us to live a good life.. in other words, without money.. we can not pursue the things that are important to us. So money is more of a tool, which can support the life which we feel is meaningful. In that sense, money is DEFINITELY everything, for without money we have nothing. But of course there are other important areas like spiritual life which we have to focus on, so if we very poor, or our prayers of becoming rich are not answered, God knows whats best for us.. maybe he doesn’t want us to be too rich otherwise we might become arrogant, materialistic etc.. (who knows, you gotta ask God!) But as we are here on this Earth, we need money.. the more the better.. coz we need it for emergencies such as health care, education, or money to go to church! (some people might be too poor to do that!).
RM2.30 for one plate isn’t expensive compared to KL.. now standard price for prawn mee or char keow tiao is RM3.50.. and the drinks is as expensive than the food. Its just not worth it drinking outside nowadays.
Anyway, don’t worry about not making enough money, i feel its best to keep life simple.. and as long as you work hard and smart, we can still afford to live a life that you want to. I’m in no position to say this coz i’ve not started making money yet.. maybe if i ever make it.. i’ll share more info with you.
Cheers!
August 1, 2007 at 9:05 pm
oh im not sure if you’ve mention this before..
When we get caught up with thinking of making lots and lots of money..
Ask yourself this question..
Why do i need so much money?
Its a very tough question to answer IMO, because the answers can range from… many factors.. like
money = success, accomplishment, lots of things, feel good, achievement, self satisfaction, security,..
or we may feel making money is a game, need to support family, or kiasu seeing people making more money etc etc..
And then after calculating the money we are making
Is it enough? Or do we want more?
And whats the reason?
Its rather easy to fall into the trap of wanting to make lots of money.. and not identifying the motives of making it..
our motive underlies everything within us i guess.. so its best to identify it..
August 2, 2007 at 11:56 am
drumsticks : definitely, until the reason or the purpose of trying so hard to be in that position is to be made known or aware of it’s best to just do the best in whatever that you are doing. Thanks for sharing some thoughts … I find that rather provoking my mind on what’s the purpose of this life. Maybe something that is worth blogging about.
August 2, 2007 at 12:24 pm
enough said, we all love to have more money..
nothing to question about that. it’s only the how, the process you making money that’s up for judgement..