Why am I writing this at this hour? So free? Yes I am. I’m on leave today. Johny asked me to take a leave today. It has been 3 months and I have not taken any leave since the very first day I stepped into the office. So here I am, taking his advice relaxing and pampering myself at home. But I still have reports pending to be done.
The last two weeks I have been having meetings with Big Boss everyday. Sales reports, daily planning, briefing and of course the appraisal form. I’m getting sick and tired of it but then that is not a choice, so I have to work my ass out. It’s ok then …
Carol called me up yesterday. She’ll be coming back to Miri next week. It’s not that it’s a surprise to hear that. I attended her engagement dinner last month here in Bintulu but then I was surprised to hear she say that the wedding would be in January. That’s super fast! First it was Wen and then Alice and now, Carol. All three angels of the Cibol’s Angels are now taken. So now I’ll be just be – Bol, Ci-Bol.
I have nothing against married friends really but somehow some of my buddies seems to be changing into a completely different person when they got married. I see lotsa my friends are like turning into a complete stranger to me. They’re no longer funny, they’re slow and the most “visible” transformation is their tummy! So Ah Bui already! Bigger than what their wives have when they’re 7 months pregnant. Ai ya yai ya yai …
So, to me changes is good. To the better la. But not to the extend that you change they way you are. You know stuffs like you used to be funny and now you’re not. All the small things la. It’s understandable that you can’t really go out partying all night long like you used to when you’re married. once in a while of course la. But don’t change into a retard like you’ve been pussy-fied by your wives. For example – You’re no longer funny, you took time to analyze jokes (slow pick up), you no longer laugh at dirty jokes. So please, I pray to God, when I got married, don’t turn me into one of them. It’s seriously sickening.
I need some sleep … Warbooking is indeed tiring
A Life Less Ordinary 
November 19, 2007 at 1:15 PM
oi aku menten cali kelak.. menar tok sik bulalk.. tapi part tummy ya sik perlu tunggu kak kawen pun š
November 19, 2007 at 7:44 PM
aku pun menten.. syukur.. alhamdullilah… š er i funny ke now? pray for me also so if i marry later i will not turn into dumbass.. š
November 19, 2007 at 7:45 PM
aaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhh…wen’s ur turn cibol? hehehe..
since when a married person turns slow when they got married?
November 19, 2007 at 8:29 PM
OMG, You are funny :). I hope I did not turn my hubby like that. For one I turn him thinner, he used to be a bit chubby with all those American pizza and take to go food, now he is slimmer with all the Cina food :).
But have to admit since we have anak and I go back to school, the poor man does not have much time for himself, have to chuck the baju to the washing machine, chuck them to the dryer and chuck them to the laundry basket and sort them. and also help me to throw the dirty dishes into the dish washer and take anak to school.
We both can wait for me to get out of school so we can go our traveling day again.
When I was in Aust. during my single days. I hate my friends who get hooked, once they get hooked, they turn into someone I don’t know. Never call, too busy for anyone.
Since I came here most of my friends here are married, I also don’t have some one to compare.
Cibol, go find new friends. I know it is hard in K.L, people basically do their own things not like our kampung back home (mine is Kuching), we hang out all the times.
When I was home the last time, I mean to do a lot of serious thing, like to to bank close account, take $ out etc. But every day go to makan, chit chat, take pictures, until last day passed the form to my bro, he was pissed ! :). Jamy
November 19, 2007 at 9:32 PM
zulhardy : Nang la sik perlu nunggu lekak kawen, tapi mun dah kak kawen .. makin besar nak? š
bongkersz : How about phat ass?
Lola : My turn ah? Tunggu la .. If got then you’ll get the card la
Jamy – seaykopitiam : It’s understanable on the a lot of things to do especially on new responsibilities and stuffs like that la. That one I can accept but some of them just turned into a complete boring person which really annoys me sometimes. š Nothing against wives la .. I’m trying to adapt to the new surroundings and not so surprisingly, most of my newly acquantied friends are married but their still so dem hillarious. And I was wondering what happened to my newlywed frens? They lost the plot
November 19, 2007 at 10:06 PM
People do change.. haha.. accept them as what they are..
November 20, 2007 at 1:31 AM
Whether I dumped the guy, the guy dumped me, I single, I married, I am funny and I love comedy. I am spontaneous, funs and crazy. I asked my 4 years old often, is mama more funny or papa. He never failed to say : Mama :):):).
November 20, 2007 at 7:12 AM
keeyit : That is one kind of a change that I just cannot tolerate with. š Seriously sickening
Jamy – seaykopitiam : Yeah, that’s the way. Stay the same. Why change ourself kan? No point bah .. Guess nama rules in this case then. š
November 20, 2007 at 8:31 AM
If something need to turn to bad side, I rather it stays.
I want to stay young, cute, adorable, energized, happy, well build…
muhahahahah~~!!
November 20, 2007 at 12:38 PM
wow, everyone seems to be talking abt getting married…etc..
it’s a great thing! hehehehe….
marriage is starting a new life! hahaha
November 20, 2007 at 2:54 PM
Dun worry, after getting married, u still can be a funny guy, d choice is in ur hand, š
November 20, 2007 at 6:50 PM
what phat ass.. hehe! you talking about yourself ke? š aiya guys.. you notice not cibol’s posts lately about relationships, guy and girl, dating, marriage.. it’s a sign lah.. š don’t be suprise later he blogs about having a baby, be a father.. be a grandpa..
November 20, 2007 at 7:02 PM
i sokong u bong! hahahahaha..
November 20, 2007 at 8:31 PM
Sean : I hope I stay that way too
lynnwei : Pain and pleasure at the same time, according to mom
MonkeyWong : I hope so š
bongkersz : Nothing to say liw
Lola : *Kobek*
November 20, 2007 at 8:54 PM
hahahaha…that reminds me of some of my friends, they tend to be very busy with life and the distance they keep from you…anyway, I dunt blame them for that…I’m happy for them. Well, with them settling down, I choose to move on and mingle around with new friends… š
Bongkersz, I have to agree with you…Cibol might have a mood swings lately…
November 20, 2007 at 10:26 PM
Man-D : Aikkss .. Mood swings???
November 21, 2007 at 9:58 PM
thanks š hahahaha! it’s ok dude, we are happy for you.. post lah about how many kids you want.. what are the names you like… š
November 21, 2007 at 10:01 PM
bongkersz : LOL .. Maybe next time then if you really wanna know